Is it okay to dream of my ex? Should I still be dreaming of my ex? Why do I still dream of my ex?
When you’re in a relationship with someone, if those feelings are deep or the relationship is long term, there is bound to be a connection on an emotional level. Once you connect with someone on an emotional level it becomes hard to just forget about them or get them off your mind or out of your subconscious. It is for these reasons that an emotional affair is sometimes seen as being more severe than a physical one.
If you find yourself dreaming of your ex it doesn't always mean that you should still be with that person or that you made the wrong decision on leaving him or her; it does mean that you had a deep connection with that person and that they are somehow still in you’re subconscious on some level.
Sometimes you might find that you dream of your ex when things aren't going well in your current relationship or you’re feeling down. This is often due to the fact that when your current partner messes up you’re likely to think about your ex and how he or she wouldn't have done this or that depending on what seems to be going wrong in your relationship. The important thing to remember in this case is that you’re ex also had faults and that’s the reason why the relationship ended in the first place.
Yes, sometimes we do make mistakes and leave the right people for the wrong ones. Sometimes we end a bad relationship for something worse. And other times we leave a good relationship over a little bump and end up in a horrible relationship. These are the exception to the rule and unfortunately there often isn't much you can do about it. You can’t turn back the clock and go back to your ex ending your marriage if you're married (unless you’re brave enough) but you can acknowledge it happened and move on.
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