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Thursday, July 19, 2012

Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez: 5 things we could learn from this super star couple – in Love

How long have Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez been dating? Are Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez seriously still together? Why are Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez still a couple? What's the secret to having as great a relationship as Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber?
Love animation:
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Put simply; Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez have been an official couple for a while now. They are still together, going strong and deeply in love.
Justin Bieber and Selena are one of the most talked about couples in the world. As young as they are, when it comes to love, romance and relationships we could definitely learn a lot from them.

Here is a list of the top 5 things we could learn from this couple:

Intercultural relationships:
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     1.       Race or cultural differences don’t matter and age is just a number.

Justin is French / German and Selena is Hispanic but neither of them seems to notice. Many view interracial and intercultural relationships as being completely complex and filled with hard to deal with differences or difficulties and yet Selena and Justin make being in one look so easy.

In addition to their cultural and racial differences is their age difference. With the age gap being barely 2 years many might think that this isn’t that big a gap.
Take into consideration the fact that statistics show woman to mature faster than guys thus making it more of a norm for the girl to be younger than they guy in a relationship ; and you have yet another difference that Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber deal with.
Considering these differences alone it is clear to see that Justin and Selena live to show that there isn't anything that cannot be overcome by love and that the heart sees no age, race or culture.

2.       Long term relationships are still the way to go.
Being together for so long Justin and Selena prove that long term relationships are far from a thing of the past.
With all of the Hollywood break ups and divorces constantly hitting the headlines, Justin and Selena are still going strong.

Holding hands:
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      3.       Romance should never die.
We’ve all noticed the slowly dying out of romance with movies like beastly highlighting the fact in quotes like ‘What happened to Romance; sappy, soppy longhand love letters’.
Many girls long for just an ounce of the romance and attention Selena gets from Justin.
Justin is constantly showering Selena with tons of attention (evident in all the pictures where he can be seen cuddling her, kissing her on the cheek or holding hands) and going all out with regards to romantic dates (one of the most exquisite was him renting out the entire staples centre for a romantic movie date!). You don't need millions to keep the romance alive though; Justin made this very clear during an interview by Hollywood life as recorded on the examiner.com, Justin spoke about all the little things he does for Selena; He tells her she's gorgeous, notices whenever she changes her hair or nail colour and tells her how pretty she is. Justin points out that it's the little things that count with regards to making the girl of your dreams feel special.

Despite the fact that they’ve been together for over a year, Justin still goes out of his way to do things to make Selena feel special and appreciated. He treats her like a princess and that's something every girl wants.

      4.       You can never have enough PDA (Public Displays of Affection).
Besides all the public displays of affection and kissing (like in Maui or backstage), as displayed in an interview with Selena Gomez on the Ellen Degeneres show (and tons of other places), there are many photo's showing Justin constantly kissing or cuddling Selena. The two are head over heels in love and they don't make a secret of it - not even in public.
      5.       There might be tons of other guys / girls that want your boyfriend.
It is no secret that both Justin and Selena have huge fan bases. Selena has tons of guys that would love to date her and Justin probably has many more female fans who'd love to be with him too. The fact that they both appear to so easily cope with each others supporters without bursting into fits of jealousy is a great point for all in relationships. The fact that they both in the same industry (entertainment) should help them better understand the situation too.
Girls at a club:
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They allow us to see the fact that there might always be people out there hitting on or trying to get with your boyfriend or girlfriend but as long as you love each other and are completely dedicated to each other none of the other people out there should matter.
Similarly, many couples deal with rumours being spread with regards to their relationships; quite often about one of them being unfaithful to the other. Selena and Justin are no different in this respect. Their situation is heightened by the fact that every aspect of their relationship (and quite often rumours which aren't true) is made public for everyone.
Relationships are all about trust and two people trying to make it work. What other people want or say should be irrelevant.
There is so much we can learn by looking at inspirational couples like Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez. Celebrities aren’t there for our entertainment only. Regardless of whether or not Justin and Selena stay together for ever, get married or break-up, due to the fact that their personal lives are constantly made public to the whole world we should use them as a means of learning something. We should learn from their mistakes and absorb everything they do right to allow us better relationships.
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