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Friday, May 10, 2013

How do you know when you've found 'The One'? How do you know you're in love?

How do you know when you've found 'The One'? How do you know when you're meant to be with someone forever? How do you know when you've found 'True Love' or 'Your Soul Mate'?

The answer put quite simply is YOU JUST KNOW.

I'd heard that saying so many times; I'd seen it on TV in the most romantic of movies and I'd heard it from my mother when ever I'd asked but I never fully believed it or grasped the concept until I experienced it for myself.

Love is something amazing. It's something precious. it's something irreplaceable. Everything about love just makes you warm and fuzzy inside.

If it doesn't feel like love - It probably isn't.

If you feel like you have to question whether someone loves you then chances are they don't. You shouldn't have any doubts or any reservations with regards to their feelings for you. If they say they love you but their actions show you something completely different then chances are it's not love.
You CANNOT love someone when you hurt them, cheat on them, put someone else above them, treat them with disrespect, or disregard their feelings.

You don't have to try very hard with Love.

Some people spend years in a relationship with the wrong person 'trying to make things work'. That's not love. When you're in a relationship where two people love each other you shouldn't have to try. It should just happen. When you're trying all the time it can't be love.
Your heart decides who it likes

The bad CANNOT outweigh the good.

All relationships have ups and downs. There is no one relationship where everything is all good all the time. There is bound to be the occasional fight / disagreement or if you do argue frequently these fights shouldn't last for long. When it comes to a case where you're constantly arguing or mad at each other for long periods of time and spend more time upset then you do happy though that should be a major warning sign or eye opener. That's not how love works.

How long does it take to fall in love with someone?

So we know that you can't force love or make things happen but is there time minimums with regard to falling in love? NO! Many think that you should wait a predetermined period of time before telling someone that you love them and maybe you should for many reasons (see here for more on this) but saying it and feeling it are two different things. Just because you're not saying it because you feel that you haven't reached that time line where you're permitted to just yet, that doesn't mean that you aren't feeling it.

Love has a mind of it's own. True love is something predestined like fate so naturally if you love someone, you love them. Love is an emotion not a person - it doesn't see time! It is due to this that you can spend months or years with one person and feel like you still don't know them or aren't comfortable with them and spend weeks or a couple of months with another and feel like you've known them all your life or been together forever. Similarly you can go months or years without seeing a friend and then spend time with them again and it's like nothing changed or everything is just carrying on where you left off. Love does not see time!

Love is beautiful. It's amazing. When you find true love it's worth keeping for ever. Don't let true love pass you by.
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Shaylee has a secret she's been hiding from everyone... Beneath her brave exterior lies a girl bruised and scarred by life but strong enough to make it through anything. Moral of the story: Sometimes we don't find love because we don't know what to look for.