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Thursday, June 11, 2015

How do you move on after being hurt: Thought for the day

Is it possible to heal after a damaging relationship? Is it possible to move on after being hurt?

Relationships have the potential to make your world a better place  you can feel like you're floating on cloud 9.

Everything can appear Rosy and perfect. And life in its all could be bliss. But relationships or rather the person you're in one with does have the potential to ruin you. They can break you and destroy you and kill you on the inside.  Some relationships can be so bad that when coming out of them you might find yourself asking if you'll ever be the same again.


The answer is simple - that's entirely up to you! You have the power to make that decision. You can decide to wallow in your misery forever or you can pick yourself up, dust yourself off and go on with your life. You control your life.

Sometimes you just have to turn around, give a little smile, throw the match and burn that bridge.

Don't let the past hold you hostage from your future.

Use everything you've been through as lessons learnt. 

He cheated on you?
Don't believe as easily next time - give your trust when it's deserved but don't be naive.

She left because you neglected her?
Give a little more attention next time - Actions speak louder than words.

You didn't give your relationship one last shot?
Try and make better choices next time and if you ever do get another shot make it count!

He / she took all you had and left you with nothing?
God will replace everything you lost in better quality and quantity if you trust Him to - Material things are nothing!

You can't keep punishing yourself or beating yourself up over past mistakes forever. It's time to forgive yourself for not doing better or knowing better or being treated better. It's time to be strong.

Is it possible to move on after being hurt? YES IT IS - but only YOU can do it.




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