Two is company; three is a crowd – Thought for the day

My boyfriend's best friend is a girl should I be worried? I have a problem with my girlfriend's best friend being a guy. My boyfriends friend is always hanging around when we're together, is that okay?

So often our relationships which are meant to be between two people become something between three!

Two is company; three's a crowd

I've often wondered how girls or guys can cope with relationships of three (this of course being the type of relationships I've been hinting at). It must be seemingly awkward if your girlfriend / boyfriends best friend is constantly hanging out or getting involved in your relationship or dates (example your girlfriends best girl friend or boyfriends best guy friend).



I can only imagine it would be ten times worse if that friend is of the opposite sex (girlfriends best friend is a guy or boyfriends best friend is a girl) and he/she is often hanging around or even worse going out with your boyfriend / girlfriend without you. How do you deal with that? What do you do?

The situation can be escalated if he/she was friends with your boyfriend /girlfriend before you even came on the scene - they have so much more of a history together, he/she knows so much more about your boyfriend / girlfriend than you do, what if they were more then just friends at one stage? ... so much pressure.

The best thing to do is to talk about it to your boyfriend / girlfriend. Let him / her know how you feel. It's the least you can do. If your partner really has feelings for you he/she will take your feelings and thoughts into consideration. It's worth a shot. It will be way better then sitting around being miserable over something that could be discussed. If discussing it doesn't work then you can contemplate taking other steps.

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Posted by Jade