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Friday, April 20, 2012

How do you know if you’re with the right person - Thought for the day

How do you know if you’re with the right person? How do I know if he/she is the right person for me? How do I know if I’m with my soul mate?

We’ve all thought about these questions at least once in our lifetimes and the answer put quite simply is ; We honestly don’t know. Believing that, the next question is, is there really a RIGHT person or SOUL MATE for us? That is highly debatable.
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There might be many suitable people for us out there. Truth is we fall in love with a certain personality, habits and characteristics. Is there only one person out there with those particular characteristics? I highly doubt that. With that being said, the right person for you at 14 will not necessarily be the right person for you at 23 or 30 unless you both adapt and mature at the same pace.

The fact of the matter is there might not be something like "the right person" but there is the one peron you love and when you find that peron he/she becomes "the right person" for you!

Love is all about understanding someone; all of him/her and tolerating every part of him or her. Similarly there isn't a perfect girlfriend/boyfriend, husband/wife but there is the perfect one FOR YOU. When you find him/her hold on tightly and never let go.

Love has a weird way of making sure that it always wins in the end. If you feel that you might have lost your right person then don't give up hope. If it's meant to be he/she will end up right back in your arms where he/she belongs.

So to answer the question 'how do you know if you're with the right person', you don't know you just feel it. You might not know but your heart does and once you feel "stuck on" that person, it's your heart giving you a message that that's the right person for you; TAKE A HINT WHY WON'T YA!

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