Thought for the day: The right one at the wrong time

Everything happens for a reason – there can be no saying closer to the truth than this. It is highly applicable to relationships too. I strongly believe that everyone you cross paths with or who you get into any form of relationship with comes into your life for a reason. We can all learn lessons from these people. Sometimes it’s good lessons; ones that make you smile and wanna cherish them forever, other times it’s hard lessons; ones that hurt and make you wanna wish they’d never happened. Bottom line is – you live you learn.

One lesson which can be highly bitter-sweet is the one of meeting the right person at the wrong time. Timing is everything when it comes to love and relationships. It has the power to make or break you. Sometimes you meet the perfect person but the timing is completely off and you can’t be together forever: Maybe it’s on a vacation and the summer vacation ends along with your romance, Maybe he / she has to leave to study or work abroad in a predetermined time or maybe you have the unfortunate case of having him or she pass away. Either way, you learn the best lessons from these people.

If you close pay attention you’ll realise that these are the relationships you’ll often remember forever. They weren’t tainted, they didn’t end badly or on sour footing. They ended due to circumstance. Circumstance and fate. Maybe you were meant to learn that “perfect” is possible, that you are worthy to be loved, or that you can love again. You’re mean to learn. Don’t view the right one at the wrong time as having loved and lost. View it as having loved and learnt. Remember each moment, cherish it deeply and allow it to make you a better person.

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Posted by Jade