When is the right time to loose my virginity? Loosing your virginity: Thought for the day

Should I loose my virginity? When is the right time to loose your virginity? How old should I be before loosing my virginity? Should I wait before loosing my virginity?

Many people don't realize just how important your virginity actually is. It is not just a case of loosing your virginity. It is like giving an important part of yourself, your history and your story to someone else.

The truth is, you don't just loose your virginity - you actually give your virginity away (unless you are forced which is obviously terrible and never acceptable at all).

Whether you like it or not, your virginity or giving it away is something that you will always remember. You will rarely find someone who can not remember how they gave away their virginity or who it was to unless of course they were intoxicated or high at the time. 

YOU will always remember the person you gave your virginity to. There are also legends or myths that state that Soul-Ties are made when you lose your virginity. For more on Soul-ties read here...
Whether this is true or not it is something that you don't want to risk or take lightly.

How do you want to remember giving your Virginity away?

• Do you want it to have been something that you barely remember because you were highly intoxicated?
• Do you want it to be with someone that you didn't care for or love?
• Do you want it to have been a one night stand or with someone you trust and were in a long-term relationship with?
• Do you want it to be something that you regret?

These are important questions to ask yourself before loosing your virginity or giving it away. You only give it away once - make it worth it. 

There is nothing wrong with waiting. 

Don't give into peer pressure or wanting to do something just because everyone else is doing it. "Everyone else" will not be living through the regrets with you. If you give your virginity to someone who will want nothing to do with you the next day you are bound to feel terrible about it.

Don't ever loose your virginity or give it away if:

• You are not sure that it is what you want to do
• You feel pressurized or forced into it
• You feel like you HAVE TO do it in order to fit in or to make someone else happy
• You do not feel ready

Sleeping with someone else not only has an emotional effect on you psychologically but it can also affect you physically if you are not prepared and protected.

Sleeping with someone else without protection can result in:

• Unwanted pregnancies
• Illnesses or diseases
• Covid-19 / Corona Virus

Make sure that you are prepared in all ways before deciding to give your virginity away.

It is YOUR body - YOUR decision and YOUR choice to make.

Good Luck and God Bless!

xoxo

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Posted by Jade