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Thursday, August 18, 2011

How to kiss a guy

Kissing is one of the most exciting things to get into.
How to kiss a guy

There’s nothing quite like locking lips to deepen the connection that’s already there.

Put simply kissing is not only fun, romantic and one of the biggest signs of affection but it’s also great for your health! Studies show that kissing has benefits too. It has a positive effect on your mood, teeth and tongue AND INCREASES WEIGHT LOSS!!! Remember, this depends on who you're kissing! You can also get STDs and other oral infections from kissing the wrong people, so be careful!

The first thing to remember is that kisses are different. Different kisses for different people. As you kiss more and more you’ll develop your own style so don’t even stress about it.
The most important thing to remember with regards to kissing (especially if you haven’t kissed anyone before) is,
There is nothing worse then feeling like you have to kiss someone because everyone else is doing it, your boyfriend's pressurizing you or you feel that you need to get it over and done with.

Let it happen when it happens.
Somethings just need to happen on their own. Wait and it will be worth it. Once you're completely ready - LET THE EXCITEMENT BEGIN!!!

Kissing step by step:
1.  Relax!!!
Kissing is the simplest thing under the sum and the only thing that could make it hard and awkward is if you’re tensed up.
Remember that the more relaxed you are the better.

·   When you see that the moment is arising for a possible kiss relax yourself by calming yourself down (you’re bound to be nervous, overly excited, anxious, etc)

·    You can instantly calm yourself down and relax by taking a few deep breaths (don’t make it obvious. Breath normally.)

·   Let your body relax. Don’t tense up your arms, have fisted hands, etc

2.  Clear your mind
Forget about everything else. Don’t focus on your surroundings or where you are. Just focus all your attention on the “here and now” and the person your with.
Remember, specifically if this is your very first kiss (or even your first kiss with a particular person) you want to remember it so take it all in!!!

3.  Easy does it
Remember not to rush into a kiss or out of it. It has the potential to ruin everything. Take your time!
Depending on who’s initiating the kiss, you’ll probably have to move in closer. Rushing towards someone for a kiss can only result in unnecessary and embarrassing situations such as head butts or nose clashes.
Generally tilt your head slightly to the right. Chances are your partner will do the same (to his right) and you won’t have a nasty accident.
*Don't pay too much attention to or stress about what direction you tilt your head to. If you do everything slowly, generally your partner will go in the opposite direction.

Follow his lead
  4. Follow his lead
For your first kiss you’d probably be better off going with the flow.
Follow the guys lead. Chances are he might be a little more experienced and by following him you’ll look a little more experienced too.
You can usually tell when someone’s going in for a kiss so just go with it and you’ll be good.

You probably won’t be sure what kind of kiss your partners going for (a peck or french kiss) so you need to go in accordingly.

First Kiss

If you’d like nothing more then a peck (which is a closed mouth kiss) keep your lips sealed! This will ensure that the kiss stays exactly that way. You can still have all the intimacy without any tongue if you don’t feel ready yet.

If you’re open to french kissing, go in with your lips slightly parted.
* Please note SLIGHTLY parted and not ridiculously open. (Think pouting and keep your lips that way).
In this way if your partner is planning on french kissing you it's completely possible and if he's planning a peck kiss then this works for that too.
5.    Lips locked
Once your lips have met you’ve past the hardest of parts.
Remember, closed eyes make for better, more intimate and romantic kisses.
Closed eyes kisses
If you’re planning on french kissing or not sure what kind of a kiss your partners going in for (a peck or french kiss) best bet would be to pull away when he does. This way you don’t have to worry about unnecessary embarrassment if you have different ideas in mind.

6.    French kissing
Once your lips have touched let the guy take control. You can just relax and follow his lead once again.
The base of french kissing is tongue touching. You can basically just touch your tongue to his whether he puts his tongue in your mouth or just sticks it out a little. As previously mentioned – kisses are different.
The Perfect Kiss

Once your tongues are touching it’s basically anything goes from there. Keep things slow and romantic. There’s no book on guidelines regarding what you should or shouldn’t do.

Kissing is something you learn as you go along. There is no sure manual on great kissing. It’s all up to you. Remember that the more you kiss the better at it you get.

Have fun and don’t do it until you’re ready!!!
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