This is the first of our new feature 'True Love Stories'. If you feel
that you or someone you know has a true love story to tell (one that's unique,
sweet, romantic, or special to you) please let us know at Lovelifeandrelationships@gmail.com.
Our True Love Stories are stories from ordinary people with something special
to say. They are unique, inspiring or just plainly put worth reading.
I did an interview with a really sweet and amazing young lady, Nada Smith. She's 25 and from Ukraine in Eastern Europe.She had a really awesome story to tell with regards to interracial / intercultural relationships. Enjoy!
I did an interview with a really sweet and amazing young lady, Nada Smith. She's 25 and from Ukraine in Eastern Europe.She had a really awesome story to tell with regards to interracial / intercultural relationships. Enjoy!
Q: Thank you so much for taking the
time to share your story with us. I'm am sure it will help a lot of people and
encourage many. How did your love story begin?
It all started when I
won my first internship to the USA 4 years ago.
Q: Wow
congratulations on the internship what did you study?
I studied Management hospitality. I now
have a master’s degree.
Q: Wow that’s really great. So how long
were you in the USA for?
I spent 1 year in USA then went back to
Ukraine to graduate. Before long I applied for another internship and won
again, so in May 2010 I went back to the USA again.
While working as manager at a hotel
there, this light, skinny guy kept trying to talk to me all the time. I kept
pushing him away because I knew I would be going back home to Ukraine in a year.
Q: That would make perfect sense.
Yeah but one night he kept begging
me for my phone number so I gave in and said ‘ok. I’ll give u my phone number’
and after few days we went on a date.
Q: So all the begging paid off and he
eventually got what he wanted.
Yeah. We soon began dating. Everybody
at the hotel was shocked because he’s an African American cook at the hotel and
I was a white intern manager there and we were dating. We had a great
relationship but after 9 months I needed to go back home and I lost him as my
boyfriend.
Q: Oh that’s horrible...
I lost him as a boyfriend because he
went from being my boyfriend to being my husband.
On Valentine’s Day last year he asked
me to marry him :)
Q: Oh My
Gosh wow!!!!! That’s so awesome! CONGRATULATIONS
Thank you. And on the 1st of April we celebrated our one
year anniversary. It was really beautiful. We had a barbeque with his
family then movies and when we got home I found flowers with a note on table.
The note said
‘I don’t have a heart anymore.
The most beautiful woman in the world, my best friend and the best wife in the
world took it. I’m happy wen u smile, wen u near me, when u are in my dreams
and thoughts. I just more than love u... u r my everything. Without u I wouldn’t
exist…’
Q: That
is so romantic wow :)
He’s not usually romantic but sometimes he just really
surprises me.
I love this man more than life. He is my everything. We
have a lot of common...he is great man and lover, friend and just great person.
I'm 25 and he's 30. He has a 6 year old son. His
momma died so he calls me momma.
Q: That's so sweet.
Do you get on well with his family
(his mom, dad, sisters, brothers, cousins)?
Q: That’s great. A really big family.
Does he get along well
with your family?
They said I had to make a choice. I could stay here with my man or go home and
forget about him. I made my decision. I decided to stay.
I’m not 15...I have my own life. They didn’t understand me.
Q: Wow. That happens a lot. It's sad...I understand completely what you mean.
Thanks. Sooner or later I had to start my own life.
Q: Yeah. If only everyone could just be more
accepting of everyone you know? The world would be a better place.
Q: Probably. They got used to having you
around and now it's like you suddenly gone.
Q: Yeah. That makes a lot of sense. I
guess sometimes everything doesn't go as planned. How was the wedding you had different
from the wedding they would have wanted for you?
We had courthouse reception and then
dinner.
Q: That's still pretty. The important part
is that you're married and you get to be together forever. That's all that
matters
Yeah. I know.
Q: So are you planning on having any
babies soon :)?
Maybe lol. Not right now though.
What a really beautiful story. Thanks so much Nada
It’s such a short life story though. If somebody told me that something like this would happen to me I say 'you're kidding me, no way!' But it really happened.
Q: Yeah and it's really great and special.
I really wish the two of you all the best and all the happiness possible
May God Bless you both and your relationship in abundance.
May God Bless you both and your relationship in abundance.
Thank u. I came up with a conclusion:
It doesn’t matter where u are...home is where your love and heart are... well my heart is his and my home is in his hugs.
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