Should I call it quits? Should I get a divorce?
Should I leave my husband / wife? Should I just give up on my marriage?
The world today is plagued with divorces. It is
nothing new to hear a friend is getting a divorce or someone you haven't seen
in a while is no longer with the man you watched them marry. Couples are
getting divorced at a rapid rate.
When asking yourself the question - should I give
up on my marriage, it is important to think about the reason for the question
even popping in your mind. Are your problems bigger than the commitment you
made before God? That should be your number one question. If you can answer no
to this question then you should definitely NOT get a divorce or give up on
your marriage.
The first few years of marriage can be extremely
hard. They can be terrifying, gruesome and challenging. The important thing is
to take each day as it comes and to try your best to work through your
problems. Is your husbands partying habits a reason to get a divorce? Is the
fact that she's constantly involving her mother in your relationship a reason
for divorce? Is his obsession with PlayStation a reason for divorce? These
things and at times even more severe issues (such as drinking problems,
addictions and abuse) can be fixed. They are minor compared to other bigger problems
like abuse (physical or substance) and infidelity.
I say - NO. Don't throw in the towel too easily.
Financial problems, bad habits and immaturity can
be fixed and worked on. It's not oath ending your marriage over and don't let
anyone tell you any different. If you've tried more then three times to work on
something in your relationship and there is no way forward without fixing it
then if you must consider a divorce but unless you've given it your all on more
then one or two or even three occasions and it's something really major work on
it, keep trying and remain positive.
Marriages are ended way too easily these days. Don't become another
statistic.
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